Grow Up By Harry Petsanis and Donna McCance People SAY they want to be treated like an adult, but as soon as someone speaks to them in a way that is honest, direct, and succinct, they act like a baby. In other words, as soon as they hear something that they don’t want to hear, they revert into a baby mode that’s the core of who they are. That is because acknowledgement of the truth requires accountability and adult consequences, and people know this. Emotional intelligence

Relationships By Harry Petsanis and Donna McCance The reason many relationships fail is because people view them as something far beyond the definition. “Relationship” is defined as “people having a connection.” Those connections are based on mutual benefits People view relationships from an emotional perspective instead of a logical one. Most relationships are nothing more than a connection or a mutual commonality that benefits both parties. When you take away the connect

Words Are Not Actions by Harry Petsanis and Donna McCance We have become a society that has convinced ourselves that words are actions. If we say something, it’s the equivalent of doing something. If we talk about something, it’s the equivalent of accomplishing something. If we verbalize something, it’s synonymous with achieving something. The reality is, most people talk, not as a prelude to acting but to substitute and avoid acting. Procrastination is defined as putting

Why The Narcissist Picked You By Harry Petsanis and Donna McCance “Narcissism is a self-centered personality style characterized as having an excessive interest in one's physical appearance and an excessive preoccupation with one's own needs, often at the expense of others.[1][2] It is human nature for people to be selfish[3] and narcissism exists on a spectrum that ranges from normal to abnormal personality expression.[4] There is a significant difference between normal, hea

Personal Growth By Harry Petsanis and Donna McCance Personal growth is the ability to learn from experiences so that you can improve yourself through your behaviors and habits. It is a process of developing emotional intelligence and maturing through your actions and reactions through self-awareness. Most people don’t want to develop personal growth because they don’t want to improve themselves. That would require self-evaluation and accepting that they need to change. The